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Suze van As Love & Life 28 jul 2018

12 dingen die mannen onwijs aantrekkelijk vinden

Wat mannen wél en niet leuk vinden is voor ons soms een raadsel. Of je er iets mee doet, is natuurlijk aan jezelf, maar onderstaande mannenmeningen zijn over het algemeen sowieso goede zetten in je leven!

We horen vaak mannen roepen dat ze liever een vriendin hebben met wie ze goed kunnen praten – maar is dat wel echt waar? Deze mannen deelden op Reddit welke karaktereigenschappen ze mega aantrekkelijk vinden en we zijn eerlijk gezegd behoorlijk blij met wat ze zeggen.

1. Lachen om smerige dingen en grappen

“If she can joke about terrible things. Or at the very least, laugh at my jokes about terrible things.” – Mojo_so_dopey

2. In het nu leven in plaats van online

“Not posting on social media. I find that girls who ghost their social media accounts tend to be genuinely interesting people with adventurous lives” – drvp1996

3. Zwarte humor

“Dark humour. If a girl can joke about sensitive topics I instantly gain respect.” – Imdouce

4. Als je enthousiast bent over je passies

“Maintain a conversation about a topic that she has some amount of passion for. Also she has to be outgoing enough to initiate conversation with me while also being subtle enough to not scare me away.” – Vharro

5. Een beetje nerdy zijn

“I don’t really care about what, but something. Movies, science, a show, video games (ENORMOUS PLUS), just has to be able to geek out about stuff.” – Satellite_Jack

6. Vertrouwen op je intelligentie

“Finding an intelligent girl who doesn’t subconsciously believe she’s a Disney princess is harder, though. Smart and humble, that’s what you look for.” – winadabur

7. Comfortabel zijn met wie je bent

“If she’s really beautiful but doesn’t take herself too seriously. There are few things more off-putting than a woman who conducts herself in such a way that makes it obvious that she knows she’s turning heads and that she’s come to expect it. But when a woman is attractive and she just wants to be herself irrespective of what everyone around her thinks, that’s appealing. And rare.” – Poor-Little-Pincus

8. Als je intelligente gesprekken kunt voeren

“Hold an intelligent conversation. Keeping a conversation funny, intelligent, intriguing and slightly racy is hard for both parties – but it’s fantastic when it works out.” – SorryAboutYourAnus

9. Onafhankelijkheid

“Someone who not only is sure of herself, but has interests unrelated to a relationship, and generally is someone who can have a life outside of whatever I bring to the table.” – Exax_

10. Als je zelfvertrouwen hebt in bed

“Seeing a woman who is happy to admit that she enjoys sex and wants to have it is still novel and exciting to me. This will probably wear off as I spend more time in the more open-minded world.” – romulusjsp

11. Ambitie

“Having a goal/plan in life that doesn’t require a relationship.” – ClvlStratagems

12. Vriendelijkheid en empathie

“If she is a kind, thoughtful, caring and supportive person. A good girl.” – Pashnax

Mannen vertellen wat je moet weten voordat je gaat samenwonen met je vriend

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