Mannen onthullen wat hun grootste ‘dealbreakers’ zijn in een relatie
Oh Reddit. Wat fijn dat je bestaat om ons een inkijkje te bieden in het brein van mannen.
Je kunt nog wel eens een compromis maken in je relatie. Hij belooft dat hij de wc-bril omlaag zet na het plassen, en jij zorgt ervoor dat je make-up niet overal ligt. Klinkt als een prima dealtje toch? Deze mannen van Reddit zijn in ieder geval niet bereid om een compromis te sluiten op de volgende dingen.
“I wont deal with jealousy, If I am with someone, I am not running around, and If I decide that I need to find someone else for whatever reason then I am gonna break it off with my current SO at the time.” – Flippent_Arrow
“I’m not in love with my best friends (or anyone else), so don’t try to limit the relationships with people I’ve already established thru my life out of jealousy.” – llamanutella
“Don’t be jealous of the other people in my life. Above all communicate! If you’re afraid to tell or ask me something it’s not going to work.” – Calebrook
“How she treats me. No matter how hot or how well she can suck a dick, I just won’t deal with the day-to-day ill-ease of trying to manage someone who is disingenuous, selfish, acts and argues in bad faith, or is more interested in having me behave as a perpetual validation machine or an accessory to a fairytale I’ve never been told.
When I think of my loved ones and how it can feel that it’s “us against the world,” and she’s part of the world, then there’s an expiration date to the relationship.” – KingEsoteric
“I will not shave my beard” – RemovingUncle21
“all my relationships are open/swinger by default and design, Im not going mono, never, ever, nor do I expect my SO to do so.” – Freevoulous
“Monogamy. It’s sad that it’s broken so often.” – captainfrobie
“Cheating. If they cheat it’s over, no talk, no compromise, over.” – anothergodamnaccount
“No childeren. I don’t want them. I’m not raising someone else’s” – elokr
“I will tolerate zero physical abuse. You don’t hit me. You don’t throw things. You don’t prevent me from leaving. You don’t lock me out. You don’t snatch things out of my hands. You don’t follow me when I leave. You deal with your emotions like an adult or you are gone.” – Omadon1138
“No sex, or bad sex (long term).” – Growell
“No sex” – minnie-sota
“My friends. I have some of the best friends in the world, and if she told me that I wasn’t allowed to see or talk to one of them or any of them it would be an automatic deal breaker.
A friend of mine’s SO recently told them to not contact one of his friends, and he went with her order. It ticks me off so much to see somebody give into a girl he hardly knows and cut off somebody who is integral to our college friend group.” – haloshade
“No smoking, Drinking, or drugs. I don’t do this to my body/mind, and i don’t want to date someone who does it to their body/mind” – TheLivesOfFlies
“No smoking at all. I want someone who will be around as long as possible, and the smell bothers me too much.” – Overtime_Lurker
“No smoking, no single layer toilet paper, no cheating” – roelCCX
“The opposite for me, being, telling me to quit smoking, continuously. I’m honest about my bad habit from the beginning so it’s beyond me why after 6 months you start telling me I need to quit. Fuck off mate.” – Taiwolph
“She better like gaming lmao” – cryoK
“No trying to change my appearance. I’m not a slob and I dress well to the occasion always. There is no need to insist on changing my appearance.” – LordWalderFrey1
“Not getting along with my mother. Yeah, I may be a “momma’s boy” but she’s the only family I have because we’re not close with anybody else. Sure, she’s a hard ass but only because she cares about me.” – StovetopLuddite
“She has to treat my kids well” – anon-journey
“Money. I won’t compromise my money because your spending habits suck nor will I want to take your money because my spending habits suck.” – tcrpgfan
“You must eat meat. You must eat pork. You must enjoy food. You must consume alcoholic beverages. I want someone I can share the joys of life with.” – PopusiMiKuracBre